ARE YOU TRAPPED IN A CAGE OF NICENESS?
You’re not alone. Millions of people all over the world struggle with this self-defeating habit of “playing to the room.”
Whether it’s at work, with friends and family, with their partner… these nice people prioritize what they say and how they say it based on what they believe will make other people comfortable.
And as someone who felt like I always had to be the “nice guy”, I know how damaging that habit is.
It doesn’t take long before “just being nice” translates to becoming ineffective, unable to speak up for yourself, and incapable of saying NO!
ONE DAY YOU WAKE UP AND REALIZE MOST OF WHAT YOU DO IS TO AVOID CONFLICT, EASE THE TENSION, AND JUST GET BY, AND SO:
You smile when you don’t want to.
You avoid topics that will make people uncomfortable.
You hold back your real feelings and let others make decisions for you.
These seemingly harmless actions create a chronic background sense of tension, social anxiety and worry. It drains you of energy and makes meetings, group environments and even time with friends exhausting.
It drains you of energy and makes meetings, group environments and even time with friends exhausting.
Why? Because constantly needing to be nice, and living under this pressure, takes a tremendous amount of energy.
And even though you’re being nice and playing by all the rules you learned growing up, something is missing.
It feels like you are not fully living your life.
You are being who you think you’re supposed to be so “they” will approve of you…
DO YOU LONG TO BREAK FREE FROM THE CHRONIC WORRY ABOUT
WHAT “THEY” WILL THINK OF YOU?
How long have you been in this cage?
Maybe you’ve wanted to change for a while but breaking away from this “nice” habit seems unclear, threatening, destabilizing, and scary.
It might feel like a radical change or departure from how you’ve lived your life up to now…
… but what has it cost you?
How many exciting moments have you dulled?
How many bold experiences have you denied yourself?
How many new opportunities have you given up on before even starting?
And if not today, then when will you actually give up this habit that does nothing but take and take?
Today is the day!
IT’S TIME TO:
Stop hiding your real thoughts and feelings and pretending to be nice.
Stop suppressing what you really want to say.
Stop avoiding direct conversations or disagreement.
Stop constantly trying to please people and maintain their approval.
Stop tolerating poor treatment, being ignored, or taken advantage of.
Stop letting your life pass you by!
JUST TO NAME A FEW, BEING LESS NICE CAN HELP YOU:
Speak up for yourself. Now.
Share your perspective boldly and freely, with relaxed confidence.
Own who you really think, feel, and believe.
Ask for what you really want.
Say no confidently and regularly, without guilt or anxiety.
Have authentic interactions where can disagree and be real (and actually enjoy them!)
Care WAY less about what “they” will think of you.
... AND THIS IS JUST THE SHORT LIST!
MOST IMPORTANTLY IT’S TIME TO BE 100%, UNAPOLOGETICALLY YOU.
THE TIME IS NOW
As with all my events, we will be learning the tools, and then PRACTICING this stuff real time. Because more information is not what you need. Transformation is what's needed. And that happens through action.
This is the only time this year we'll be having this event.
Now is the time my friend. Our love lives are such an important area of master. No matter how good things are going in your career, when this area of life is not thriving, we feel it.
On the flip side, I assure you that something beautiful, fulfilling, and truly life-changing is available to you. And you are much closer than you think.
Join me for this ONLINE LIVE life-changing weekend!
Look below to see what others are saying about the intensives, and to find out what you'll get from the weekend. All the dates, times, and details are down below as well.
WHAT OTHER PEOPLE ARE SAYING
Before I found Dr. Aziz, I was stuck in a cage of my own making, and I struggled to be myself, in almost any situation involving other people. I experienced levels of success I could not have achieved before. Investing in my confidence was the key.
Working with Dr. Aziz helped me uncover my courage. I feel like there is a leader part of me that wants to unleash and that’s how I want to live. Now I have an opportunity at work where I can show up in this light.
Dr. Aziz has drastically improved my life. Before taking his programs, I was shy, quiet, incredibly self critical, stressed, and generally felt that my life was bland. I now feel internally at peace, am outgoing, and am excited to share my thoughts, opinions, and jokes with friends and strangers alike.
I stumbled upon "Not Nice" by Dr. Aziz and that was it. I came to an event and chose to bet on myself and allow myself to grow. Now I feel that I am enough and I'm comfortable with saying "I don't know" rather than trying so hard to be perfect. I've been much more willing to speak-up at work and express my thoughts.
Working with Aziz has completely changed my worldview. I used to see myself in a negative light and I felt limited in many different aspects of life. Now I’m able to hold difficult conversations, handle challenges more calmly and above all understand what it means to really love myself.
I was feeling stuck. I would go through these bouts of motivation and inspiration and then it would just die out. But then I discovered Dr. Aziz's events. And now I have all of the accountability buddies I could ever need. I know that I can lean on them for support and continue to take bold action so I can make my goals and dreams happen.
DATES: February 24-26, 2023
This is a 3-day event designed to make PERMANENT changes for anyone who wants to break out of the “nice” cage!
DAY 1: ELIMINATE PEOPLE PLEASING
Friday, February 24 | 9:30am - 3pm Pacific
- Discover the true source of people pleasing and finally uproot and upgrade this old pattern.
- Access total freedom to just be you and stop feeling so worried about everyone’s feelings.
- Own your perspective, live in your reality, and live on your terms.
DAY 2: BOLD ASSERTION: SPEAK UP FREELY
Saturday, February 25 | 9:30am - 3pm Pacific
- Radically upgrade your ability to speak up quickly and easily in any context.
- Overcome your fear of direct conversations, disagreement, or conflict.
- Confidently say NO when you want to and boldly ask for anything from anyone.
DAY 3: UNAPOLOGETICALLY YOU
Friday, February 26 | 9:30am - 3pm Pacific
- Reclaim your power, own who you are and what you stand for.
- Fully release the need to fit in and be liked so you confidently enjoy who you really are.
- Upgrade or end relationships that aren’t working anymore, claim your direction, and start living the life you are really meant to live.
SUPER EARLY BIRD
AVAILABLE THROUGH JANUARY 29
GA = $97 | VIP = $297
AVAILABLE THROUGH FEB. 17
GA = $197 | VIP = $397
AVAILABLE THROUGH FEB. 24
GA = $497 | VIP = $697
When you step into the VIP experience of Not Nice Online, you will deepen your immersion and accelerate your results with the following bonuses:
VIP BONUS SESSION #1:
Completely Liberate Yourself From The Cultural Field
Friday, February 24
3:30pm - 5:30pm Pacific
The cultural field is the invisible force that keeps you concerned about what “they” think, the constant pressure to conform, fit in, and be how everyone else wants you to be.
In this mind-blowing training, you are going to free yourself from this pressure and:
- Completely transform how you feel about other people judging you!
- Eliminate your fear of standing out and being rejected for who you really are!
- Unleash the unstoppable version of you who goes after what you really want and truly doesn’t give a f*ck!
VIP BONUS SESSION #2:
Advanced Assertiveness Skills Training
Saturday, February 25
3:30pm - 5:30pm Pacific
You know that boldly and regularly speaking up can open endless opportunities in your career, social, and love life. Go beyond the core training of the event to master next level “ninja” assertiveness skills to fast-track your ability to say what you really feel:
In this practical and highly-actionable training, you’ll discover:
- How to take control and gracefully steer the conversation to get the results you’re looking for!
- How to confront difficult or defensive people and persist until you break through.
- How to instantly disarm someone who’s upset and have them like you and want to help you in minutes.
VIP BONUS SESSION #3:
Life Beyond The Cage: Adventure Into The Unknown
Sunday, February 26
3:30pm - 5:30pm Pacific
The truth is most nice people have been nice their whole lives and don’t really know who they are outside of that pattern. After this event, your world will be blown open and you get to choose your life, on your terms, and steer wherever and however you want.
In this essential bonus third VIP session, you will:
- Get total clarity on who you are beyond niceness and people pleasing.
- Make powerful decisions about who you want to be and how you want to live.
- Take bold action to create your new life of authenticity and freedom now.
REAL PEOPLE. REAL CONFIDENCE SUCCESS STORIES
Below are just a small number of the people who've shared how much they've gotten out of weekend intensives and working directly with Dr. Aziz.
Things have changed in a major way compared to how I used to see myself. I decided what I want to get out of life and I am determined not to settle. And best of all, I am having more fun than I ever thought I could have!
Coming together as a group as being with all the other people is powerful. This program pushes you to do more than when you’re just sitting by yourself reading a book at home, it allows you to feed off each other’s energy.
I realized I had to put myself out there, which is something I'd avoided most my life. Then I discovered Dr. Aziz. In the last six months, everything has turned around. Thank you for everything Dr. Aziz!
I was terrified of being seen and having panic attacks. I was socially trapped inside my head and in my body. It was the most incredible thing to be able to change who I am and change how I show up in the world.
It was transformational. I was able to share my story for the first time ever and it was incredibly cathartic experience to be supported by a community of people who were just like me. Something that I've never felt in my life.
I attended one of his Weekend Intensives, and it turned out to be one of the best decisions I ever made in my life. After I came back, I started talking to people in my office I never talked to, and I made a lot of new friends.
A NOTE FROM DR. AZIZ
No matter how long someone has been stuck, how much they've tried in the past, or how "different" or "broken" they think they are, it's all false. It's just a bunch of negative stories.
The truth is, anyone can dramatically shift their confidence levels in relatively short periods of time. They just need to be willing to change the way they think, challenge some old beliefs, and take new actions in the world.
That's what worked for me, and what I've seen work for thousands of others.
I would love to see you make the same transformation and join us on the other side. It's a lot more fun over here!
Until we speak again, may you have the courage to be who you are, and to know that you're awesome.