The ONE THING That Will Increase Your Confidence The Most

bold action confidence mindset social anxiety social confidence Nov 08, 2021

Do you want to increase your confidence consistently, every single day?

Do you want to start seeing results like you’ve never seen before, no matter what you’re striving to achieve?

Do you wish there was one simple action you could take every day to make sure you’re living the life you want to live?

Today is the day we tackle that one thing that will get the ball rolling and help support you in accelerating the growth in your life. Before we do that, however, we need to know what it is we’re trying to achieve.


Think of it this way: confidence is like a high-end vehicle. It is beautiful to behold, but its purpose is generally to get you where you want to go.


So, what is it that you’re aiming to achieve?

What are you currently steering your confidence toward?

Maybe you want confidence to be able to date more successfully; maybe you need confidence to be able to speak up more at work; maybe you need confidence to be more bold in your business (increase your rates, go after big clients, etc.). Get specific, because if confidence is a vehicle, then we need to steer it effectively.

Now that you know what you’re after, try to determine your greatest fear in pursuing that goal.

Let’s look at an example from real life:

If your goal is to improve your work situation, then get specific about how you need to do that. Are you too nice? Are you letting people take credit for your work? Are you letting your coworkers treat you with no respect? Are you missing opportunities to speak up about your big ideas? Now, for each of those issues, there is probably a long list of things you could do to remedy the situation . . . but which one scares you the most?

Are you afraid to sit down with a coworker and have a conversation about how he or she treats you? Are you scared of speaking up boldly for the first time because of how people will judge you? Are you afraid of changing your behavior and offending someone?

All of those things can be very uncomfortable—but they’re the things that are going to get you results the fastest.


Confidence is a byproduct of bold action.


The more action you take, the more confidence you will have . . . period.

It’s a very simple formula. If you want to increase your results, then you need to take more bold, assertive, consistent action—especially when it scares you.

Now, if you’re sitting there listening to this and starting to have a mini panic attack, then take a breath and step back for a moment. Firstly, there are a lot of actions you can take on the way to your most bold action. The important thing is just to start taking action.

At the same time, however, you can start to work toward that boldest of actions by accessing any of the many resources you can find online, including those at my website, There, you can find a communitycounselinglive events, group masterminds, and a free copy of my eBook, Five Steps to Unleash Your Inner Confidence. Spreading the joy of increased confidence is my life’s mission—I have spent decades researching this topic and dedicating myself to coaching thousands of people each year toward greater self-assurance, so each of these resources is meant to help support you on the onset of your journey toward your ultimate confidence.

So, please check it out and take advantage of all we have to offer. In the meantime, pick less intense actions that you know you can enact today without making you want to quit altogether.

You do possess the gumption to take bold action—you just might need some gradual exposure to it before you can start going full-throttle. Pick something small and work your way up. As you continue to take on new actions every day, you will begin to develop a tolerance to whatever holdups you’re experiencing. This is how you take giant leaps in your confidence levels.

What is one thing that you can do today (or tomorrow morning if it’s late) that scares you, but that will also help you make great strides forward in your life? Share your thoughts, questions, and concerns in the comments below, and offer up any tips and tricks you have for your peers who may feel hesitant. As always, I also invite you to subscribe below by clicking the notifications icon so that you can receive these tutorials as they’re released and become a member of our thriving community.

Until we speak again, may you have the courage to be who you are and to know on a deep level that you’re awesome.

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