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Are you finding yourself constantly overwhelmed at work? Do you feel like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders? If so, it might be time to ask yourself an important question: Are you being too nice at work? Being overly accommodating can lead to a host of problems, not just f...
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Is it possible that being too nice can actually harm you and negatively impact those around you? While it might sound counterintuitive, especially since being nice often feels like the right thing to do, excessive niceness can cause significant problems in your life. Let’s explore how this happen...
Picture this: you’ve been working hard to increase your confidence for some time, you’re watching the videos, reading the books, practicing the techniques (maybe even attending Confidence University), and you’re feeling great about your progress. Maybe you even feel like you’re ready to take on the ...
Do you have trouble saying “No”?Â
Do you tend to give in to your friends’, kids’, boss’s, and even coworkers’ requests?
Do you constantly do whatever anyone asks of you without any thought for yourself?
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Are you too nice?
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What we’re here to discuss today is how to learn to consider what yo...
The Misconception of Niceness: Are You Living Authentically?
"Are you too nice?" This question might seem unusual, but Dr. Aziz, an esteemed psychologist and author, prompts us to consider the depth of our 'niceness'. In his engaging YouTube video, Dr. Aziz unravels the complex psychology behind be...
I don’t like you. I don’t like your jerk-off name. I don’t like your jerk-off's face. I don’t like your jerk-off behavior. And I don’t like you, jerk off. Ok, end scene. (That’s from the classic stoner movie, The Big Lebowski).
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But isn’t that what we’re all afraid of? Criticism. Being judged an...
Would you like to have more confidence when it comes to being around other people?
Would it bring joy and ease to your life to feel more comfortable speaking up, sharing your perspectives, and being more authentically yourself in the world?Â
Would you like to finally stop worrying so much about wh...
Are you afraid of conflict?Â
Do you often deal with guilt about the things you say?
Do you feel constant anxiety about letting your opinions be heard?
If you’re ready to take control of your life and start standing up for yourself—but your efforts are consistently being derailed by the fear that ...
Do you constantly shy away from standing up for yourself?Â
Does the very idea of freely speaking your mind make your stomach turn?
Have you ever stopped to consider why you feel so much anxiety around this topic and what has been creating that inner tension?
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What are you so afraid of?
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Do you know how to ask for what you want in life?
Are you able to confidently talk about your desires without guilt and fear?
Do you know how to be effective as you freely go after your dreams?
Fact: the more you ask for what you want, the more you will get what you want.
Asking for what you wan...
Do you take on too much responsibility for other people’s feelings?Â
Do you feel like you spend every minute of every day trying to please people and worrying about whether you’ve said the wrong thing?
This is an extremely common habit that plagues almost everyone who thinks of themselves as good,...
Do you find it hard to speak up for yourself in certain situations?
Do you struggle with asserting yourself at work, at home, or even socially?
If you’ve waited your whole life to take matters into your own hands and learn the art of expressing yourself with confidence, then this is the episode fo...