Do you hate being disliked? Welcome to the human club.
We've all been there. The fear of being disliked is what holds most of us back. This overwhelming sensation stops us from expressing our true selves and living our lives to the fullest. But what if I told you that the very thing you fear...
I want to share a simple tip you can use to have people treat you with more respect.
This applies to all situations, relationships at work, socially, or even at a restaurant, talking to the server, etc.
People will treat you differently when you do this.
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Do I have to be an a**hole to succeed in life?
It was a question I got recently via email. I thought it was great, so I thought I'd answer it here.
I wrote this book, "Not Nice," a couple of years ago.
When people hear that, they say, "Not nice? Do you mean to be...
Can social anxiety be cured?
No. And that's the end of this discussion.
I'm kidding.
But sometimes, that is what it seems like. At least, it certainly seemed like a way for me when I lived with social anxiety. I didn't even think about curing it. I didn't...
Confidence is not just something you say, it’s something you show!
This isn’t a mind-over-matter sentiment; it’s a matter of how you physically present yourself to the world. No matter your professional background or personal insecurities, your body language can be...
Would you like to live without regret?
I mean, truly open-heartedly joyously without regrets.
If you answered “Yes,” it comes down to two things.
Do you want to know what they are?
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BOLD ACTION.
The people that I see that...
The Secret to Overcoming Social Insecurity: A Game-Changing Hack
Do you constantly feel the weight of eyes on you, scrutinizing your every move, making you doubt yourself? Whether it's at a social event, a business conference, or even just around your fit friends at the gym, if insecurity is your...
How do you let go of past mistakes?
You might be experiencing this suffering of things from the past.
It could be recent, like:
Why did I stay in that relationship?
Why did I be that person in the first place?
Why did I say that at work?
Why...
Would you like to radically increase your confidence, self-esteem, and what I call On My Own Side?
Being on your side means you don't turn on yourself, you don't attack yourself, and you don't criticize yourself—you treat yourself with compassion, respect, and dignity.
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Do you ever feel inferior to other people?
That might think the question is rhetorical because the answer is probably, yeah, everyone feels that.
In fact, you might feel it once in a while, regularly or virtually all the time.
I've experienced it...
Becoming more confident is great. As you increase your confidence, you can be bold, connect better, become more successful, and be sexier.
But did you know that as you become more confident and more expressive and more you in the world, unpleasant things happen as well?
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You’re gonna discover a super skill for confidence that is essential to learn and know.
I share this skill with clients, and they use it in any situation.
You can use it around people. You can use it when you're alone. You can use it at work. You can use it in meetings....