The Hidden Dangers of Being Too Nice
Is it possible that being too nice can actually harm you and negatively impact those around you? While it might sound counterintuitive, especially since being nice often feels like the right thing to do, excessive niceness can cause significant problems in...
The One Secret to Self-Confidence
There is one secret to self-confidence, self-worth, and self-esteem. It’s so simple that your initial reaction might be, "I don’t know about all that. Where’s the next video? It’s got to be more complicated than this." But it doesn’t...
Picture this: you’ve been working hard to increase your confidence for some time, you’re watching the videos, reading the books, practicing the techniques (maybe even attending Confidence University), and you’re feeling great about your...
Do you get stuck in conversations where you don't know what to say next?
Do you have a sense of fear when it comes to what if there’s a pause or a lull in the conversation, and then you won’t know what to say?
Maybe you are scared to the point where you...
I don’t like you. I don’t like your jerk-off name. I don’t like your jerk-off's face. I don’t like your jerk-off behavior. And I don’t like you, jerk off. Ok, end scene. (That’s from the classic stoner movie, The Big Lebowski).
But...
Are you afraid of conflict?
Do you often deal with guilt about the things you say?
Do you feel constant anxiety about letting your opinions be heard?
If you’re ready to take control of your life and start standing up for yourself—but your...
Do you constantly shy away from standing up for yourself?
Does the very idea of freely speaking your mind make your stomach turn?
Have you ever stopped to consider why you feel so much anxiety around this topic and what has been creating that inner tension?
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Do you tend to be too nice?
Do you worry that voicing your desires will upset or offend someone else?
Are you constantly placing the needs, emotions, and wishes of others ahead of your own?
In general, many of us tend to hold back from going after...
Do you take on too much responsibility for other people’s feelings?
Do you feel like you spend every minute of every day trying to please people and worrying about whether you’ve said the wrong thing?
This is an extremely common habit that plagues almost...
Do you find it hard to speak up for yourself in certain situations?
Do you struggle with asserting yourself at work, at home, or even socially?
If you’ve waited your whole life to take matters into your own hands and learn the art of expressing...
Do you constantly find yourself secretly wanting to impress people?
Whether at work, home, or out, are you always desperate for people to see you as successful, funny, smart, sexy, skilled, cool, or special?
Do you spend all of your...
Do you spend hours of your day obsessing over every little thing that goes wrong?
– You’re always screwing things up!
– This is going to be a disaster for you at work!
– ...